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THE REWATCHABLES · September 15, 2020

Unfaithful

A 2002 romance / thriller / erotic directed by Adrian Lyne, covered in the complete Rewatchables archive.

RomanceThrillerErotic2000sDirected by Adrian Lyne
Overall episode#163Source sheet order
Movie year20022000s
Tomatometer51%Critics’ score
Metacritic63View score
Roger Ebert3/4Original star rating
DirectorAdrian LyneRomance / Thriller / Erotic

FROM THE CONVERSATION

What they said about the movie

The episode argues that Unfaithful is less a great movie than a great Diane Lane showcase, and that Lane is the kind of performer who can elevate a flawed erotic thriller through naturalism, vulnerability, and visible damage. Bill and Wesley also treat Adrian Lyne as a uniquely horny, highly visual filmmaker whose style makes the apartment, train, and affair scenes memorable even when the plotting is shaky.
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WHY IT WORKS

What made it rewatchable

  1. 01Diane Lane's performance and screen presence are treated as the main reason to revisit the film. Opening minutes
  2. 02Adrian Lyne's seduction-driven visual style creates an atmospheric, highly watchable erotic-thriller mood. About 24 min
  3. 03The train sequence and aftermath provide strong visual storytelling and repeated emotional beats. About 40 min
  4. 04The confrontation and murder section deliver tension and darkly comic escalation. About 40 min

WHAT DID NOT WORK

Their main criticisms

  1. majorThe film never fully explains why Connie cheats, making the central motivation feel underwritten. About 48 min
  2. majorThe murder and body disposal are wildly implausible and poorly executed. About 1:12
  3. moderateSeveral dialogue scenes feel unnatural and overexplained. About 1:04
  4. minorThe school-play material and some suburban domestic beats feel like generic movie clichés. About 1:04

SCENES THEY KEPT COMING BACK TO

Standout moments

Favorite

French stranger in the windstorm

Connie gets pulled into the Frenchman's apartment after a storm, and the hosts treat this as the affair's crucial point of no return.

About 40 min
Favorite

Train ride after the affair

Connie's train ride and flashbacks are praised for conveying guilt, shock, and interior life through Lane's expressions.

About 40 min
Favorite

Lunch with the friends and bathroom hookup

A social lunch becomes an Adrian Lyne-style seduction scene when Connie and Paul sneak off to the bathroom.

About 40 min
positive

Edward kills Paul

The snow-globe killing of the French lover is discussed as darkly satisfying even while being absurdly staged.

About 40 min
positive

Connie confronts Edward

Connie's discovery of the snow globe and Edward's confession-like confrontation are singled out for strong performances.

About 40 min
mixed

Dry cleaners / photos discovery

Edward's carelessness with the photos in his jacket is mocked as an implausible plot device.

About 56 min
critical

School play scene

Bill complains that the school play scene is generic Hollywood shorthand for family happiness.

About 1:04

WHERE THEY DISAGREED

The biggest debates

No final agreement About 48 min

Why Connie cheats

Bill Simmons

The movie implies boredom and suburban ennui, but the motivation still feels underexplained.

Wesley Morris

The film should have leaned harder into the marriage being bad or into a more explicit psychological reason.

They left it as a friendly argument About 48 min

Whether Paul deserved to die

Bill Simmons

The lover is rude enough that the murder almost feels understandable inside the movie.

Wesley Morris

The death is unjustified and the movie has to stretch to make it seem credible.

They partly agreed About 1:12

Best Richard Gere role

Wesley Morris

Internal Affairs is Gere's best part; Chicago is also excellent.

Bill Simmons

Gere is better as a necessary ingredient than a dominant star, with some great roles but many missed opportunities.

No final agreement About 40 min

Best alternate ending

Wesley Morris

The earlier siren-based ending would have been stronger and more ambiguous.

Bill Simmons

The released ending is acceptable, but the movie already has enough tension before the final scene.

19 People discussedActors, directors, writers, and producers
very favorableDiane LaneBill Simmons: Praised as the movie's essential force, an immensely likable actress whose naturalness and visible damage make her unforgettable. Opening minutes favorableAdrian LyneWesley Morris: Described as a visual seduction filmmaker who understands editing, atmosphere, and erotic tension even if he lacks deep psychology. About 24 min mixedRichard GereWesley Morris: Seen as a conditional star and vessel for other people's material, excellent in some roles but inconsistent overall. About 1:12
mixedOlivier MartinezBill Simmons: The French lover is treated as attractive to some viewers but not compelling to Bill, and his presence fuels the affair plot. About 56 min
favorableMargaret ColinBill Simmons: Praised as a likable presence who adds warmth as Connie's friend. About 56 min
favorableZeljko IvanekBill Simmons: Recognized as a classic 'that guy' detective actor who appears across many films and TV shows. About 56 min
mixedChad LoweBill Simmons: Used as the overacting winner for a heated confrontation scene, more for loud intensity than praise. About 56 min
favorableKate BurtonBill Simmons: Highlighted as a convincing friend whose complaint about Diane Lane's body feels realistic and funny. About 56 min
mixedJennifer LopezWesley Morris: Discussed as someone who was offered the role but likely made the right choice to pass because the part needed a different kind of presence. About 56 min
neutralAva GardnerWesley Morris: Used as a comparison point for older Hollywood glamour and star type. About 32 min · medium confidence
favorableJulie ChristieWesley Morris: Cited as another example of mysterious stardom that feels untouchable and not fully knowable. About 16 min mixedEllen PompeoWesley Morris: Used hypothetically to argue that Diane Lane could have excelled on Grey's Anatomy and made the show more interesting. About 24 min mixedKim BasingerWesley Morris: Held up as another actress whose star persona depended on being tapped correctly by the right director. About 24 min favorableChadwick BosemanBill Simmons: Referenced as an actor who carried dignity and a protective quality similar to what Lane brings. About 8 min favorableJulia RobertsBill Simmons: Mentioned as the actress who definitively replaced Lane in Pretty Woman and as a unique star partner for Gere. About 8 min favorableDebra WingerWesley Morris: Cited as a force of nature opposite Richard Gere in An Officer and a Gentleman. About 1:12 · medium confidence
favorableLou GossettWesley Morris: Mentioned alongside Debra Winger as one of the strong forces that make An Officer and a Gentleman work. About 1:12 · medium confidence
mixedJennifer AnistonWesley Morris: Used as a contrast case: she can try to play damaged but lacks the hidden weight Lane has. About 16 min neutralSusan SarandonBill Simmons: Mentioned late in a discussion of older actresses who remain striking at advanced age. About 1:20 · medium confidence
14 Conversation takesSpeakers shown only where the transcript identifies them
Bill SimmonsLiked it

Unfaithful as a Lifetime-style movie

Frames the film as a high-end Lifetime movie and wonders if it is the best version of that kind of story.

Opening minutes
Bill SimmonsLoved it

Diane Lane

Argues that Lane is an elite actress whose career might have looked very different with better roles and timing.

Opening minutes
Wesley MorrisLoved it

Diane Lane

Says Lane's appeal comes from natural likability, damage, and an almost impossible-to-fake screen quality.

Opening minutes
Wesley MorrisLiked it

Adrian Lyne

Characterizes Lyne as a seduction-focused visual stylist who works best when the screenplay gives him strong material.

About 24 min
Bill SimmonsLiked it

Richard Gere

Sees Gere as a star who often elevates other performers and occasionally lands in the right role himself.

About 1:12
Wesley MorrisMixed

The affair and murder mechanics

Enjoys the film's vibe and some scenes but repeatedly objects to the logic of the cheating and killing plot.

About 48 min
Bill SimmonsLiked it

French lover confrontation

Finds the apartment visit and snow-globe killing scene entertaining enough to almost justify the murder within the movie's logic.

About 48 min
Wesley MorrisMixed

The film's ending

Thinks the alternate ambiguous ending or the siren-driven near-ending would have worked better than the released version.

About 40 min
Bill SimmonsMixed

Suburban setting

Feels the film makes the suburbs look sleepy and bored, which helps explain the affair but also makes the movie feel rigged.

About 48 min
Wesley MorrisLiked it

Adrian Lyne's visuals and atmosphere

Likes Lyne's apartment smoke, close-ups, and seduction-focused staging even when the plot itself is thin.

About 32 min
Bill SimmonsDid not like it

Olivier Martinez

Says he does not personally buy Martinez as a sexy object of desire in the movie.

About 56 min
Wesley MorrisMixed

Richard Gere

Calls Gere a conditional good actor whose best work depends heavily on the project and co-stars around him.

About 1:12
Bill SimmonsLiked it

Infidelity consequences

Argues the movie is interesting as a cheat story but the murder feels like an absurd escalation rather than a convincing outcome.

About 48 min
Wesley MorrisLoved it

Diane Lane's career

Imagines her as a TV star or soap-opera lead if her career had broken differently, showing how strongly he thinks she fits domestic drama.

About 24 min
4 ThemesThe larger ideas in the discussion

Star persona and damage

The discussion centers on how Diane Lane projects compassion, weariness, and private damage that makes audiences protect her and believe her inner life.

Opening minutes

Erotic thriller culture

Lyne's work is placed in the era when sex movies had outsized impact before internet porn and changing cultural attitudes reduced their power.

About 32 min

Marriage and betrayal

The hosts keep returning to whether a supposedly happy marriage can collapse arbitrarily and what real consequences cheating should have.

About 48 min

Class, suburbia, and movie casting

They repeatedly suggest that affluent suburban life, blonde casting norms, and conventional movie-star expectations shaped Lane's career trajectory.

About 1:04
25 Facts and referencesProduction notes and other movies mentioned

Production note

Roger Ebert gave the film three stars and described it as interested in 'two reasonably sane adults' in an almost insoluble dilemma.

About 48 min

Production note

The studio and Adrian Lyne debated whether the couple should have a bad sex life or a good one; Lyne wanted the relationship to start out happy.

About 48 min

Production note

Multiple endings were shot, including one where Edward walks toward the police station; the released ending is the car-at-the-light version.

About 48 min

Production note

Anne B. Coates edited the film.

About 24 min

Production note

The apartment sequences caused cast/crew bronchial irritation because of heavy smoke machines.

About 24 min

Production note

Lane said the repeated sex scenes left her physically and emotionally shattered.

About 1:04

Production note

Lyne wanted the leads to gain weight to look like a comfortable middle-aged couple, but neither did.

About 1:04

Production note

The film is based on the 1969 French film The Unfaithful Wife.

About 56 min

Production note

The movie grossed roughly $118 million worldwide on a $50 million budget.

About 48 min

Production note

Jennifer Lopez was offered the role and later said she would have been upset to miss the Oscar nomination.

About 56 min

Fatal Attraction

Used as the benchmark erotic-thriller and comparison point for Lyne's filmography and the movie's tone.

Opening minutes

Beaches

Joked about as a possible all-time title holder for a Lifetime-style movie name.

Opening minutes

A Little Romance

Cited as Lane's early breakout that suggested a major career ahead.

Opening minutes

The Outsiders

Used to show Lane's early positioning alongside the next generation of stars.

Opening minutes

Risky Business

One of several roles Lane reportedly passed on that could have changed her trajectory.

About 8 min

Splash

Another early role Lane reportedly declined, used to illustrate her star-career crossroads.

About 8 min

Pretty Woman

Discussed as a role Lane almost took before Julia Roberts became iconic in it.

About 8 min

The Accused

Mentioned as another near-miss role for Lane in the 1980s.

About 8 min

The Perfect Storm

Referenced while exploring Lane's star image and a possibly memorable final shot.

About 8 min · medium confidence

Under the Tuscan Sun

Used as an example of a Lane vehicle that works because it feels like her rather than a role.

Opening minutes

Walk on the Moon

Referenced as the late-1990s film that helped reestablish Lane's value to critics and casting directors.

About 16 min

American Gigolo

Cited as Richard Gere's star-making and still-discussed early lead role.

About 1:12

Officer and a Gentleman

Referenced as one of Gere's best roles and a successful star vehicle.

About 1:12

Chicago

Discussed as a movie in which Gere is surprisingly free and fun despite the film's awkward assembly.

About 1:12

The Affair

Referenced as the later TV version of this kind of adultery story, with season one praised and the show compared to Unfaithful.

About 1:12
10 Running jokes and short linesRecurring bits captured from the conversation

Diane Lane career-what-if machine

Bill and Wesley repeatedly spin alternate-career scenarios for Lane across film, TV, soaps, and different co-stars.

Opening minutes

'Never found the right team' sports analogy

They frame Lane as a star athlete who kept landing on the wrong team despite strong play.

Opening minutes

French lover as suburban threat

They joke that a Frenchman is the timeless affair archetype and try to identify who replaced him in modern culture.

About 56 min

Mom and wife taste tribunal

Bill repeatedly invokes his mother and wife as enthusiastic viewers who love the movie and/or Richard Gere and Olivier Martinez.

About 48 min

That guy award

The podcast awards-style bit names Zeljko Ivanek as the classic ever-present character actor.

About 56 min

Wesley Morris

“I think Beaches might be the all-time title holder.”
Opening minutes

Bill Simmons

“There's no such thing as a mistake.”
About 1:20

Wesley Morris

“If a French director... had a baby”
About 24 min

Bill Simmons

“Diane Lane for life.”
About 1:20

Wesley Morris

“I wanted to kill you.”
About 40 min

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