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THE REWATCHABLES · November 14, 2023

An Officer and a Gentleman

A 1982 romance / drama directed by Taylor Hackford, covered in the complete Rewatchables archive.

RomanceDrama1980sDirected by Taylor Hackford
Overall episode#333Source sheet order
Movie year19821980s
Tomatometer79%Critics’ score
Metacritic75View score
Roger Ebert4/4Original star rating
DirectorTaylor HackfordRomance / Drama

FROM THE CONVERSATION

What they said about the movie

The episode treats An Officer and a Gentleman as a surprisingly great, emotionally satisfying 1982 star vehicle that bridges 70s character-study realism and 80s studio romance. The hosts focus on Richard Gere and Debra Winger’s chemistry, Lou Gossett Jr.’s iconic drill-sergeant performance, the movie’s raw sexiness, and its unusually uplifting ending.
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WHY IT WORKS

What made it rewatchable

  1. 01Richard Gere’s star-making antihero performance holds the movie together. About 16 min
  2. 02The Gere/Winger chemistry gives the romance real emotional force. About 8 min
  3. 03Lou Gossett Jr.’s drill-instructor scenes deliver memorable confrontation and energy. About 16 min
  4. 04The obstacle-course and training sequences are unusually fun to watch. About 32 min
  5. 05The ending is a big, crowd-pleasing payoff with a famous sweep-you-off-your-feet finale. About 8 min

WHAT DID NOT WORK

Their main criticisms

  1. moderateThe opening sexual situation with Gere’s father is bizarre and uncomfortable. About 32 min
  2. minorThe timeline near the end is confusing; it is hard to tell how much time passes. About 56 min
  3. minorLou Gossett Jr.’s karate/fight double is visibly obvious in places. About 1:04
  4. minorLynette’s haircut does not age well. About 1:12
  5. minorSome of the class-size/age/realism details around the training program feel off. About 1:12 · medium confidence

SCENES THEY KEPT COMING BACK TO

Standout moments

critical

Robert Loggia naked opening

The movie opens with a shockingly naked family-sex setup that the hosts find hilarious and unsettling.

About 24 min
Favorite

Foley's first drill-sergeant scene

Foley’s insults and Oklahoma rant are treated as a perfect introduction to the character.

About 32 min
Favorite

Obstacle course and hero-ball turn

Mayo crushes the course and then helps others instead of just chasing glory.

About 32 min
Favorite

Mayo meets Paula at the bar

The bar meet-cute with Paula is praised for the immediate spark and early-80s dialogue.

About 32 min
positive

Caruso rescue / CPR

Mayo saves Caruso from drowning, reinforcing his competence and leadership.

About 32 min
Favorite

DOR weekend training

Foley’s brutal weekend punishment is singled out as the movie’s best stretch.

About 48 min
Favorite

Paula at the bar with Dire Straits

Paula returning to the bar while Dire Straits plays is treated as a great romantic beat.

About 56 min
positive

Blimp hangar fight

Mayo and Foley’s martial-arts confrontation is enjoyed as a wild, almost different-movie scene.

About 1:04
Favorite

Ending factory sweep-off

Mayo sweeps Paula off her feet in the factory as coworkers clap and the film lands on a triumphant note.

About 1:20

WHERE THEY DISAGREED

The biggest debates

They partly agreed About 16 min

Is Lou Gossett Jr.'s role overrated?

Bill Simmons

The part is showy and easier than the leads' roles, though still great.

Sean Fennessey

The performance could have been bad in weaker hands, and Gossett makes it intense and human.

They partly agreed About 16 min

Who is the film's true star?

Bill Simmons

Richard Gere is the key reason the movie works and feels star-making.

Chris Ryan

Debra Winger is equally crucial and one of the hosts' favorite actresses.

No final agreement About 1:12

Did Lynette really think she was pregnant?

Sean Fennessey

She probably thought she might be pregnant, but the emotional issue matters more than the factual answer.

Bill Simmons

The movie gives evidence she was late, but the timing remains murky.

They partly agreed About 1:36

Which training-movie apex matters more: Private Benjamin or Full Metal Jacket?

Bill Simmons

Private Benjamin starts the craze and should be considered central to the subgenre.

Chris Ryan

Full Metal Jacket is the true apex because it is an iconic film.

They partly agreed About 48 min · medium confidence

Should the film's sex scene or ending be considered more defining?

Chris Ryan

The sex scene is unusually erotic and central to the movie’s era-specific impact.

Bill Simmons

The ending is the bigger emotional payoff and more iconic overall.

19 People discussedActors, directors, writers, and producers
very favorableRichard GereBill Simmons: Praised as the film’s key reason for working, a uniquely charismatic, devious, athletic, star-making lead. About 16 min very favorableDebra WingerChris Ryan: Described as naturally cool, emotionally warm on screen, and one of the hosts’ favorite actresses. About 24 min
favorableLouis Gossett Jr.Sean Fennessey: Praised as intense and iconic, though one host argues his part is showier and a bit overrated relative to the leads. About 16 min
favorableTaylor HackfordBill Simmons: Credited for making a tough, well-observed romance and for knowing how to stage the film’s big ending. About 40 min neutralDon SimpsonBill Simmons: Used as a marker of Hollywood excess and as the producer who also made Top Gun. Opening minutes favorableRobert LoggiaBill Simmons: His naked opening scene is treated as memorable, weird, and hilarious rather than as a serious problem. Opening minutes favorableHarold SylvesterChris Ryan: Highlighted as a favorite character actor who reliably improves any movie he appears in. About 1:36
favorableGrace ZabriskieBill Simmons: Praised as a strong, memorable mother figure in the film. About 1:12 · medium confidence
neutralJohn DenverBill Simmons: Cited in casting what-ifs as a ludicrous rumored choice for Zack Mayo. About 1:36
neutralJeff BridgesBill Simmons: Mentioned as an original choice for Zack Mayo and as part of the era’s lead-actor competition. About 1:36
mixedTravoltaBill Simmons: Discussed as a casting alternative rejected for this and other Gere roles; the hosts think Gere is better for the part. About 8 min
neutralMandy PatinkinBill Simmons: Mentioned as a preferred but rejected option for Foley. About 1:36 very favorableEbertBill Simmons: Referenced as giving the film a rave review and praising its emotional sincerity. About 48 min neutralChris RyanBill Simmons: Used jokingly in discussion of DOR and movie personnel as part of the on-air banter. About 16 min neutralBill SimmonsChris Ryan: Bill is the one steering the discussion and joking about money, canon, and casting. Opening minutes neutralSean FennesseyBill Simmons: Bill frequently checks in with Sean on the movie’s romance, ending, and craft. About 8 min
neutralMalory RubinChris Ryan: Referenced as the ideal person to explain the opening sex scene and sex-positive questions. About 48 min
favorableDavid KeithBill Simmons: Discussed as a strong supporting presence whose character has a complicated arc. About 16 min · medium confidence
favorableKeith DavidChris Ryan: Mentioned in a closing reflection as someone the audience cares about by the end. About 1:28 · medium confidence
15 Conversation takesSpeakers shown only where the transcript identifies them
Bill SimmonsLoved it

An Officer and a Gentleman

Calls the film amazing and says he can't believe how good it is.

Opening minutes
Bill SimmonsLiked it

80s military-training movies

Frames the film as the centerpiece of an era of military-training dramas that all shared a similar DNA.

Opening minutes
Sean FennesseyLoved it

the ending

Argues the ending is one of the most iconic romance-film endings ever.

About 8 min
Bill SimmonsLoved it

Richard Gere

Sees Gere as the essential antihero star, weirdly lovable and impossible to replace.

About 16 min
Chris RyanLoved it

Debra Winger

Describes Winger as naturally cool, very beautiful, and unlike any actress he'd otherwise confuse her with.

About 24 min
Bill SimmonsMixed

Lou Gossett Jr.

Admits Gossett is great but argues the part is showy and easier than the leads' roles.

About 16 min
Sean FennesseyMixed

the opening Loggia/family-sex setup

Finds the opening psychologically strange but still useful for establishing Mayo’s damaged backstory.

About 24 min
Bill SimmonsLoved it

the DOR / 'I ain't gonna quit' weekend

Treats the drill-sergeant torture stretch as one of the movie’s best scenes.

About 48 min
Chris RyanLoved it

TJ's bar / Dire Straits sequence

Likes the bar scene because the two leads still feel intimate even when separated.

About 56 min
Chris RyanLiked it

Lynette

Says he increasingly likes Lynette and views her as a straight shooter rather than just a villain.

About 1:20
Bill SimmonsLoved it

the factory ending

Thinks the final factory reunion, with the famous song and crowd reaction, is a perfect payoff.

About 1:20
Bill SimmonsLiked it

Richard Gere kissing style

Says Gere kisses in a way that is intense, tactile, and unlike modern movie kissing.

About 1:28
Sean FennesseyLiked it

full-length romance structure

Emphasizes that the film works because the emotional stakes are clear and the characters are well developed.

About 48 min
Bill SimmonsLiked it

Robert Loggia

Treats Loggia’s absurdly naked entrance as iconic comic shock value.

About 24 min
Chris RyanLiked it

sex scenes in 1980s movies

Argues the movie’s sexiness is a product of the era’s limited access to nudity and higher impact.

About 1:36
5 ThemesThe larger ideas in the discussion

70s hangover / transitional Hollywood

The hosts frame the movie as a sophisticated 70s-style character study that accidentally became a massive 80s hit.

Opening minutes

Classic Hollywood romance

The movie is praised as a romantic melodrama with an iconic ending and real emotional sweep.

About 8 min

Flawed characters as a strength

They like that almost everyone is messy, difficult, or morally compromised.

About 8 min

Military-training movie cycle

The episode situates the film inside a wave of early-80s military/basic-training movies.

Opening minutes

Star-making masculinity

The discussion centers on how Gere embodies a kind of dangerous, lovable, antihero leading man no longer common in films.

About 16 min
25 Facts and referencesProduction notes and other movies mentioned

Production note

The film was made on a $7 million budget and grossed about $190 million.

Opening minutes

Production note

Richard Gere later said he did the movie strictly for the money.

About 16 min

Production note

Debra Winger turned down many major roles, including ones in Raiders of the Lost Ark and Bull Durham.

About 24 min

Production note

Lou Gossett Jr. won the Oscar for Best Supporting Actor for this film.

About 24 min

Production note

The sex scene had to be adjusted to avoid an X rating.

About 32 min

Production note

Gossett reportedly lived away from the set so he would not socialize with the rest of the cast.

About 1:36

Production note

Gere accidentally kicked Gossett in the groin during filming and Gossett missed two days.

About 1:36

Production note

The blimp hangar used in the movie is now a performing arts center.

About 1:36

Production note

The ending song 'Up Where We Belong' was originally resisted by Don Simpson.

About 1:36

Production note

Douglas Day Stewart based the script on his own naval aviation officer-candidate experience.

About 1:36

Top Gun

Used as a comparison point because both films come from Don Simpson and share a military-training/romance structure.

Opening minutes

Casablanca

Referenced as a benchmark for iconic romance endings.

About 8 min

La La Land

Cited as a rare modern phenomenon romance film.

About 8 min

The Notebook

Mentioned as another recent romance phenomenon before La La Land.

About 8 min

Private Benjamin

Listed as one of several early-80s military-training movies.

Opening minutes

Stripes

Included in the military-movie run of the era.

Opening minutes

Full Metal Jacket

Used as the later, harder-edged version of the military-training movie and as a comparison for drill-sergeant behavior.

Opening minutes

The Deer Hunter

Mentioned as another 70s-era small-town/catalyst movie.

Opening minutes

Footloose

Referenced as another example of a small-town, emotional crowd-pleaser from the era.

Opening minutes

Gandhi

Mentioned in Oscar context when discussing the 1982 awards race.

About 24 min

E.T.

Referenced as another 1982 awards and box-office giant.

About 24 min

Tootsie

Used in the 1982 Oscar discussion as one of the big competitors.

About 24 min

The Verdict

Referenced as another acclaimed 1982 film in the awards race.

About 24 min

Against All Odds

Mentioned when discussing Jeff Bridges and Taylor Hackford after this film.

About 1:36

Urban Cowboy

Used as one of Debra Winger’s major early successes.

About 8 min
12 Running jokes and short linesRecurring bits captured from the conversation

White guy race

A running joke about the 1980s competition among white leading men for major star vehicles.

About 8 min

Steers and queers / Oklahoma insults

The hosts repeatedly quote Foley's abusive drill-sergeant lines and riff on them.

About 32 min

Foley karate showdown

They keep returning to the idea of the drill instructor as a martial-arts opponent and joke about the blimp-hangar fight.

About 1:04

Byron Mayo / father foursome bit

They invent and repeat a grotesque joke about Mayo's dad and his graduation present.

About 24 min

DOR obsession

The acronym becomes a running gag and a shorthand for quitting, discipline, and life choices.

About 48 min

Loggia torso / pubes obsession

The hosts cannot stop joking about Robert Loggia's nudity in the opening scene.

About 24 min

Needle-drop debate

They joke about whether the famous closing song or the Dire Straits bar cue is the better music moment.

About 56 min

Bill Simmons

“Top Gun's fucked up older brother.”
Opening minutes

Bill Simmons

“I got nowhere else to go!”
About 48 min

Chris Ryan

“Way to go, Paula!”
About 1:20

Bill Simmons

“You give me a hard on.”
About 32 min

Sean Fennessey

“Unusually erotic.”
About 48 min

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